story of -=K=- :: part 44

But when K found out that T had gone with another guy, he didn't believe it at first...But it was also because that T had become another guy's gf that caused K to find out the real reason...

One rainy night... K could still remember that night.. when it had been raining for the whole day... K received a call at about 12 midnight... It was K's friend who was studying in the same Uni as T... and she said..."K, give it all up... T is with someone else now... dun take it too hard... " that was all she said.... But that one short sentence... meant a million things to K.. It meant.. " so T had another guy all along.." it meant " T lied when she said there would be no future guys.. " it meant T lied when she said she would concentrate on her studies... it meant T lied when she said that she wanted to be free and enjoy herself.... It meant that it was because of the other guy that made T not reply K anymore... It meant why T doesn't want K anymore.. it meant why T could be so hard hearted when she saw K so sad and down on her birthday.. It meant everything....

K didn't sleep that night.. It was as if a lightning bolt had struck K... No one can understand how it feels... That is exactly the same feeling that K didn't want X, to feel last time.. K told X the truth... K told X that there was someone else in the relationship instead of lying.. the pain is intense but truthful... But this time... K felt the agony and sharp biting pain... The biting cold ate into his heart.. He felt like he had been a fool... to cry for T, to be sad for T... to be depressed for T... to spend all his money on drinking for T... to suffer so much for this kind of girl... K took it really hard. He felt that he had been the fool all along.. to trust T when she said there would be no future guys... what a joke it was to K... he had believed T.. he felt so cheated. He felt like he was the biggest biggest emotional freak on earth.

That night he didn't sleep. He called a friend... and talked till he was so tired till he slept... for 2 hrs.... The next day... K had duty to do... and heaven laughed at him that day.. he stood in the rain for 4 hours.. not by choice... but K had no feeling.. K was emotionless... he msged T.. " if u have another guy, please tell me the truth, do not avoid" but still there was no reply. T didn't care a damn about how K felt, she couldn't care less anymore. The skies cried just like K was crying in his heart.

Never had someone seen K looked like that before.. he looked like a zombie. A dead zombie... standing in the rain. It was such a terrible day that thinking about it makes K very bitter... And to add it all.. T didn't care about what K was feeling right now.... She didn't bother to reply.... But have anyone wondered why K bothered to ask T? it was because he loved T still..

story of -=K=- :: part 43

Many a time.. his friends.. seeing him in such agony.. told him.. " forget about her, she is not worth it... " and things like." No matter what happened, u should go on with your life and not dwelling on such things... Its very unhealthy..." although T, had picked herself up to continue with her studies with the help and support of the guy and her friends, K was not to be.. K was still in the dumps. K could not accept the emotional break up of him and T... as they had been together for a long time. K had dreams still... K dreamt that one day, everything will just become normal again....

But all he could do was dream... dream wasn't reality. During the time when K and T broke up, K dreamt of T at least 3 times a week... I guess it is called "day think, night dream" which means if u keep thinking about something in the day.. u will dream of it at night....

K could not pick himself up.. K was weak with his emotions... he lost all meaning in his life. T was the reason why he did everything... T was the support of K.. the morale support and the knowing that T's love is still there for him was his basic need... and he had lost his basic need... K wanted to study... to support her.. K wanted to let T know that there was someone who will take care of her forever... Everytime K went out with T... he never want T to feel poor... although he is only drawing an NSF pay.. he tried to pay for everything if he could.. he thought about the times when he was in JC... K went to take tuition then.... HE could remember a few times when T and him went out and he had to tell T that he had to go for tuition.... And T would wait below the block where K was teaching tuition to wait for him.. It was so touching, so nice, so sweet.

K remembered the times when he and T sneaked out of school ... when they had lessons... It was so exciting to run with T... it isnt the same like skipping school himself... when he knew that T was following him close behind... he felt so happy..a feeling of running away from everything with the one u like...

And why did K take tuition at that time? It was not entirely for himself.... All his tuition money... he didn't mind spending it on T... when K took his pay... he didn't even think one bit when he used it to spend on T... no matter what it is. Every cent spent on T was worth it... Even till now, K feel the same way.. but now... he has upgraded.... Not only monetary concerns would he spent on T... now... every min spent , every hour wasted to make T know that he still loves her is worth it...

But although T had set her priorities in life already, not K. K was still in agony... K was still thinkin about T. T may not have been thinking about K anymore, but K is still there, thinking about T every single night... K couldn't go on... the pain was too much for him to take...

so one night.. he decided to send T an email... He said something like " I cant go on with my life.. can u tell me why? Can u tell me the real reason that u are giving up this relationship? Please provide some answers, If u still want me as a friend... Everyday is like hell for me, please don't make me go through all this and tell me the truth.."but what was the truth? K still didn't know the truth, and that was the biggest joke in the world.

So T didn't bother to reply... and let K waited and waited... Every single day... K checked his email to see whether T replied.. but there was no reply.. T was really cruel, but I guess this is the normal characteristic of a girl who is hurt before.. They have a right to protect themselves. K checked and he checked... but there was never ever going to have another email from T anymore..

In K's agony, he began to like techno and trance.. I don't know why that sort of music is associated with sadness and depression... But it is... It is a way of showing " life sucks " and that is quite true... Army guys go cheong at weekends.. and listen to these... K always liked love songs.. he was a singer.. He joined many competitions before... and always, he sang love songs... he sang sentimental songs... But now, K only listened to techno and trance music...

Why was that so? It was a symbol of sadness. K wished for T to one day call him and say.. " lets not fight anymore.." or he wanted so badly to call T and say.. " I miss u dear... I am sorry that I hurt u.." but he will only say that if he knew WHY... he didn't know why...

Life is often like that.. one thing leads to another... When K and T broke up, K met his friend, who taught him the problems that girls face when their guy is in the army.... And that was how he realises what T was going through... at the same time... When K knew that T had someone else, he realised how impt T was to him.. he realised he could not lose T... T was his everything.

story of -=K=- :: part 42

But K didn't know. He didn't know that his beloved T was already with someone else... So one night.. when K was in tears again.. he sent 2 msgs to T... he said..

" I don't know what u are doing right now... But I am as usual, thinking of you , just like every other night since u left me.. I miss you T..."

And he said.. " Just want to let u know that I have not stopped loving you since the day we broke up... Its not so easy to forget someone like you.."

But T was already with the other guy... and she didn't remember those sms now.... It had no meaning to her anymore.. But K didn't know. He was in the dark.. he thought to himself.. If T wanted to have fun and wanted to enjoy her life and not wait for me.. its for her own good.. If T wanted to study hard and not think about guys.. its also for her good... and so with that in mind.. K only felt sorrow and could not do anything.. If going back to the relationship is not what T want.. K respected that.

But If the real reason that T didn't want K anymore was because she was giving up on him as he had hurt her, he would not have given T up.. He believed in the wrong reasons.. again and again...Throughout the time that he was sad... he thought that he could do nothing about it.... And that was the most heartbreaking part of it all... K thought about the times when he was dreaming about building a family with T... he thought.. T was studying when he ORDed.. he thought... he would get a stable job.. and start off with his accounting qualifications... he thought how nice it was to one day be able to go to T's school and drive her home...

He dreamt of many things. How he and T will get married once she finished schooling... he remembered the times when T would blush and say she wants to marry K... he remembered the time when T cooked for him before leaving for indonesia.. just like his wife... he dreamt about how T and him will look like when they are older and had kids.. which would look exactly like them... how cute it would have been... he remembered that sms from T... that one which said " must be very cute.." and it reminds him how hopeful T was in their relationship....

But back to reality... he thought that T no longer want all that.. T doesn't want the dreams anymore... Why is he still thinking about it? He thought he was a fool to think about all these, but no.. he wasn't a fool. He was in love... Love is hopeful.. K hoped so much that all these would not just vanish.. he hoped that it will still be there.. K didn't know why he didn't give up.. He didn't know why he kept thinking about all these...

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story of -=K=- :: part 41

And so K became as sad as ever again... each day.. K could do nothing but stone his life away.. K spent his time thinkin and thinking. He sat in his office whole day... he could not work... he affected the mood of his happy office.. he affected the mood of everyone... He was so depressed that everyday he skipped lunch.. he was so sad that he could only eat 2 mouthfuls of food before dumping the rest. He was so hurt that he could only sleep after thinking about T every night. Each passing day made K weaker.. K became so weak and so weak that he had no energy to do anything. Each time K had to do duty, he cried alone at night.. he kept it soft... so that no one could hear her...Each night... he thought of Why Why Why .. and why... why did all that happened...K couldn't accept reality. Somehow he felt that he will never ever forget T in his life. Each day passed and still K thought of T. K couldn't forget her... Every day K went out with a different friend... females.. males... anyone... K went out with anyone. K even went clubbing with an irc friend..... and got drunk.. in the end.. it was her who carried him and pulled him around. He was like a slump... where have u ever seen a guy like that? It was always supposed to be guys taking care of the girls in clubs.

K was no longer the same K that each and every friend knew. K was emotionally weak... he could not harden his heart and say.. " so what if T left me, I can always find someone else better.." just like his friends say. K could only say in his heart.. " why would I want to find someone else better? It is not about any girl who is better or whatever... It is about the person I can really say love now.. and that is T.." One day, K went out with this girl.. she was the most sensible girl that K ever knew.. this girl... this girl taught K about something that he never knew.... Something that was really imporatnt to all guys in army...

she told K.. " the biggest problem that army guys face with their sweethearts was... that they could not understand what their gf is going through outside. . they always think that their Gf is happy and enjoying their lifes... but what they don't know is that there is always stress and homework to cope with.. there is so much the girl has to sacrifice in order to be with the guy. Weekends are spent with their bf, which the guy will think is only right.. but on the side of the girl, they are giving up many many things and many activities or enriching stuff that might benefit themselves.."

When K heard all that... he found that it is really true.. he began to think.. he began to think how T felt.. he began to feel... he began to remember how T felt and how she sounded when she called K after studying... He began to remember how T always spent her weekends with him.. and how he had taken it all for granted... just like what that sensible girl was saying.. when K thought about all that.. he realised.. he realised how much T had sacrificed for him. How did this girl know? It was because this girl had scolded her friend's bf before and told him all that, and it helped the couple to strengthen the relationship.

And Now, K started to think.. he started to hear in his head... how T said.. " can I talk to you for a while? I m really stressed up.." the voices were stirring in his head.. he began to hear.. " can u accompany me to the airport to study? I really want you to be there.." " I need to get back to my books now.... Very stressed.." K heard all these.. in his head.. he began to realise how much t needed someone to help her.. to at least show support and encouragement.. at least show concern for her... K realised how much T was suffering.. at that very moment his friend told him. But it was all fated... If K didn't break up with T, he would never have gone out with that friend of his.. it was because of his break up that made him go out with other girls and other friends. It was because of him going out with them that made him realise what did T went through. If T didn't break up with K, K would never know. But now T had broke up with K, and K finally realised it, K finally knows how it felt.. but it was all too late..

But in her heart. She still loved K.. she sent greetings to K on christmas and new year... but K didn't respond.. she wished him merry christmas... But K never felt one bit of merry during that time... she wished her happy new year... but K didn't felt one bit of happiness.... Every single day that K passed without T was only filled with sadness. But T.. T was feeling loved and cared for.. T could find solace with another person.. T felt the feelings that she had so long not gotten from K...T realised that K was so hopeless.. although K was the one she loved so deeply, in the end, the one that is hurt is her. Why was she so foolish to do everything for K? She thought that she was the silliest person on earth. Many girls are like that... when they have been hurt.. they can no longer show the same level of commitment and the same amount of love. It is only natural that females do that. But T although was not prepared to give , needed concern and love... if the person could give her that... it was enough..

So eventually.. T accepted the new guy....... T decided to give K up... and went with the other guy...The minute she made the choice in her life, everything begin to change again...

final sem in nus

finally got all my modules, but then i still can file for graduation, coz of my TIP module is not inside the system (i suspect), so got to wait for the lecturer to put it in before i can file... hope that no screw up for this, better not!

so, for this sem...
CS3250 - Management Support System
CS3251 - Technology Strategy & Management
CS3260 - Telecommunication for Business
CS3266 - E-Commerce Technology
MNO1001 - Management & Organization

4 soc modules for my final sem, bad bad planning ya... and i juz realise tat mno is not as easy as i thought... shit...

story of -=K=- :: part 40

But.. T's scarred heart... still felt for K... she still had love for K.. she still love K. As I have said.. Love is such a wonderful thing when described in that phrase. She had that love.. pure love for K that still made her think of K.. It was K's foolishness that made him not realise that fact.... So one night.. T talked to K online.... That was the last chance that she would have ever given K.. It was her pure love that made her say so much to K.... When K talked to T online.... He had not gotten over T...

It was sometime near christmas...he was still in the dumps. A few weeks has passed.. but K was still wallowing in the mud... But when he saw that T was online.. He tried to talk to her again.. K was very happy to have a chance to talk to her... but he spoilt his own chances again... If only he said what he really felt.. But I guess.. it was not that easy for K to do so... he didn't think that T still love him.

K asked T ... " when did u start to think that I werent meant for you?" in K's head... he thought that T didn't like him anymore... so he asked that question... then T replied.. " recently.." the meaning that K get... and the meaning that T was trying to put across was totally different... K thought" so she gave us up because she didn't want me anymore... I was not meant for her... she changed.. " but T was trying to say.. " I kept giving u chances after chances.. but u didn't change. U said u will but u never did. We are not meant to be together because I have given everything to u , and u didn't gave me anything.." that was what she meant...

K knows it now... but it is only Now that he knew it... then K asked T another question " why cant u commit anymore?" and T said.. " I still want to have fun.. I still want to enjoy myself..." T also said .. " I will not love anyone else.. there will be no future guys.. I will concentrate on my studies..." from these two sentences.. K thought.. " she said she wants to have fun.. which means she doenst want to be stuck with me in army... she wants to enjoy herself... that means she wants to have more choices ... " but when K saw " I will not love anyone else.. and there will be no future guys.." he could not understand it... he didn't believe it.. How was he able to believe all that when T had confirmed that she had wanted to have more fun instead of being stuck with him?

So K said.. " no... u will find someone else... and one day.. u will tell him that u cannot commit as well..." That sentence hurt T again... K didn't believe whatever she said....But if only she knew.. if only she knew that everything she did and said had been misinterpreted...when T said the sentences that she wants to have fun and cant commit... she meant.. " I cant commit anymore... commitment to you is too hurtful... I did so much.. but I didn't get anything in return.. I will no longer dare to commit... why not just have fun and enjoy myself instead of suffering so much in love..." and when she said there would be no future guys and she wants to concentrate on her studies... she really meant it at that time....

But K once again didn't believe her. He didn't believe that she loved him... so he asked her.." if u really love me why do u want to give me up?" then T said.. " I love you.. but I think we will be better off as friends..." no one could ever understand this sentence... only T will... only T knew why... No one who ever heard this sentence knows what it means... neither did K knew... but K know it now... but it is only now that he know it..

At that time.. K thought to himself.. " why is T still trying to lie to me? If she love me.. why cant she commit? Why did she say that she loves me but want to be only friends?" And so K didn't believe T ... although he knew that T had loved him a lot , but when she said that she loved him but only want to be friends, K could not believe the logic behind it... He didn't know that it was him who had hurt T so deeply that made her feel that being in love hurts so much.. might as well be friends... that was the real meaning that T was trying to say... but K didn't know.... So K replied.. " no.. you don't love me... if you love me.. u will be able to commit... if you lov me... u will not want to break up.... So I am going to hide into my shell now.... To avoid all these... it is too painful..." T was sad again... but she still spent her last time typing these..she said.. " I don't know wther u believe me or not.. but I am going to say it.. I still love you.."

But K could take no more of the lameness in her words. How would a girl want to leave him when she loved him? Nobody in this world could understand the logic... Maybe someone can... someone who had learned a lesson before .... Who is K now... finally he can understand the logic now... But once again.. its only Now that he understood....T had been waiting for K to come back to her and change for her... till that day... that was the last time that she wanted to give K his last chance....

story of -=K=- :: part 39

But even though K felt all these... he didn't change.. he was still the same old K... the same K that treated T in the same way all along... If T had forgiven him that time... I can tell u that K will still be the same person.. he will never change. People never change until something serious happens. For the week after K met T... he was still the same K.. there was no change in him. If T had gone back to him then.. she would stll suffer.. she wll not find real happiness. T was in pain.. she needed to relieve it...

what did K do to relieve his pain? K went to drink... went out with friends.. and spent money... but all to no avail, he still felt as painful as it is... K drinks to feel happy temporarily... but after that, reality still seeks in.... But by the time he realises it, it was too late... he had spent every bit of his money left.

K chatted with many friends... to ease the sadness... K had the same characteristic as T.. they were both dependent and insecure ppl... So K had to depend on his friends to console him.. But the hurt and pain that he had was not that easy for anyone to just say a few words and he would be ok.

K told his friend... one of his guy friends who had a gf just like he and T, he told him" hey, me and T had broken up... I really cannot go on with my life.." and u know what his friend said? His friend said.. " break break lah, hack care lor. What can u do? Find someone else." It was so short, but it meant a lot to K. K thought... what could he do? It was T who didn't want him anymore.. what can he do to change that? T wanted to enjoy herself and not be stuck with me... what can I do to change that?

It became worse for K. K knew that now... he could do nothing and just live with the cruel fact. K didn't know that was all untrue... If he had changed and went to look for T and ask her for her forgiveness.. he would have succeeded. But no, he didn't do that. He thought.. " if it was T who changed heart, no matter what I do... I would never succeed..." and he gave up... K didn't trust that T loved him then. Why would he trust that? No way.. T was the one who didn't want to respond to him anymore... love is very meaningful. K had came across this phrase in the mindef forums.. that say..

" Love is patient.. Love is kind.. It does not envy, it does not brag, it is not proud, it is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hope, always persevere. Love never fails."

K was weak... he is not patient, he is proud, he is rude, he is easily angered, he keeps records of wrongs, and he didn't trust that T loved him. He kept thinking that T didn't want him anymore... he didn't know that he and T had love... K never ever trusted himself that T really loved him with her heart and soul.... He was not fit to say that he love T....

What about T? she was patient with K.. she gave K lots of chances.. she was kind to K... she always tried her best to make K happy... She is not proud, and she would rather herself fail than to break up with K.. so she is not self seeking.. T is not easily angered... Everytime K did something wrong... she would not get angry as often as when T did something wrong... She managed to do many things that fulfiled the phrase... But what did K manage to do? Barely a few. And K still had the cheek to tell her that she don't love him... How that must have felt....

On the side of T, how did she get through the times? She went out.. went out and went out... she spent everyday to go out... she didn't want to stay at home and think about the horrible thing that happened.. T needed someone to take care of her... T needed someone to support her just like K was needing his friends. But no matter how her friends or his friends were there for them, the pain that both of them felt was too deep to be eased simply.

T started to go out with a guy who asked her out... She began to feel loved and cared... she was having those stuff that K never gave her for so long...care, concern, love, support, encouragement... she had all these in her darkest hour.. from this guy..This guy managed to show T that he was the one that could really take care of her... unlike K, who were so lacking in the other areas of love like security, care.. etc.. This person.. had all these... T was happy that there was this person who had all that she needed for so long.. T didn't need hurt, T didn't need pain. T didn't need to suffer for K. T's shattered heart was struggling to live on... She could not love that easily anymore... she didn't want to suffer the feeling of giving and givng and getting nothing in return...

And now.. this person.. was someone who was ready to give ... It is always happier to be loved than love others. T can feel this guy's sincerity and love.. it was just like what she did to K last time... She gave.. and now.. he gave...

story of -=K=- :: part 38

But K couldn't do anything except doing nothing. Why was that so? It was because he thought that it was T who didn't want him... so he would rather T be happy... why did I say that? Because T said something...

T said.. " I love you, but I think we are better off as friends.." K didn't understand what she meant.. K thought that T meant she will be happier if she is without K, so she would rather give up the relationship...K thought that T wanted to enjoy her life in Uni and not be attached to him... he thought that K didn't want to commit in their relationship anymore... K didn't know that what T meant was ... " its too hurtful to be with you, its better that we be friends.." that was what T meant... but K didn't know .... K didn't didn't didn't know....

So what did K do? K was overwhelmed with sorrow. He could not push himself to live on.. Whenever he goes to a place where he and T went before.. he would see the image of him and T happily going out.... There was this place where they went to eat remember? A pizza hut ... .and now, K had not stepped into that place anymore.. He could no longer do it... Stepping into that place is a heartbreaking feeling.. many Many times K went past that particular shopping mall... And many many times he told himself... No... There is no more T who would go with u ...

K didn't know... K thought... " T didn't want me anymore... I must pick myself up and live on... Isnt this what I expected anyway? That T would leave me when I am in the army.. this is just exactly what happened.... I should be mentally prepared..."

But K wasn't mentally prepared... he had never ever thought that he and T would ever break up.. He thought that T and him could stand the test.... That everyone else failed... But that was what he thought.. it was different from reality. Reality at that time, to him, was that T had forsaken him....

But what was T doing ? T was hurt and sad... Everytime she saw K's sms.. she didn't reply... she could feel that K was still blaming everything on her... but why did she feel that way? Because K didn't know the real reason.. K didn't know that she was so hurt, he tought that she didn't want to commit anymore. But the more she didn't reply, the more K felt that she was really gone forever... the more K wanted to know why, the more T rejected it... T was a girl... a poor hurt girl who had loved and was hurt.

Why would she still have the heart to take anymore of K's accusations? Why would she want to respond to things that K thought it was? No longer did she want to explain and waste time and breath to revive K, as K had hurt her too deeply... So even though she knew that K was suffering badly, she didn't want to do anything anymore... She herself was suffering as well... Man is selfish.... Everyone is. The only one that could give and give whole heartedly without forsaking you is God. T and K are both no God....

T had gave K lots of chances to change... But K didn't do it... whenever he say he will do it.. he will do it for a while.. and after some time.. he will revert back to the old K. his promises to T were always broken.. Each time he break his promise, another nail went into the fence... So at that point of time.. T No longer want to give K anymore chances... Maybe she wanted to , but it had to be K who was the one trying hard, and not she just giving K the chance and not he himself who earned it...So her heart was charred, blistered, sore, hurt, ravaged, broken, split, shattered, cracked, scarred and nailed ... but it was not dead.. Her love for K... made her heart live on....

But as each passing day passed, as each sorrowful night went by... her heart became harder and harder.... It was deterioating by the day....

T had just finished her exams... and she wanted to enjoy herself. Her exams were so horrid that she was rejecting it all the way... and what made it worse was what happened.... IT was really really too much for her to take. No amount of words can describe what T went through... But K didn't know it... K was totally in the wrong direction..... He believed in the wrong thing...

And K..what did he do? He tried his best to communicate with T.. but all he did was ask this.. ask that... he kept asking why... every sms he sent, it was not to tell T that he is sorry.. it was not to tell T that he is in the wrong... It was to ask T why did she didn't want to commit anymore... Every thing he did, he had the mindset that T didn't want him, and not he had hurt T too much... and so when T didn't reply him.. he grew even more sad and hurt.. he didn't have a good time at all...

Remember the bubble Tea stall that K and T frequent? When he walks past there... he could C he and T sitting there.. just like before... he remembers the time when he and T were sitting there and studying for their A levels.. he remember the times when he and T woke up early to meet there to have breakfast... T would come all the way... from her house to the stall... just to have breakfast with K... heartwarmingly... all these images flashed into his head... there was once when they even waited for the stall to open... they had came too early...

Both K and T loved the food and drinks there... they have spent a lot... that bubble tea stall had a certain noodle.... And whenever K eats this noodles... T would say.. " I know how to cook it too.." and K would always tease T.. saying.." haHa, the one u cook surely cannot make it" although K said that... he really wanted T to cook it for him... T would always say.. " hmph, u dunwan to eat then dun cook for u liao..." So many times did T said she knew how to cook.... But because she had a hectic schedule.. there was no way she could spend time to cook for K... and the only time when she was free... that was after her exams... and such a terrible thing happened.... How she must have felt...

She wanted to do so many things after her exams ... she wanted to cook for K... But now, there was no longer any chance for K to eat the noodles anymore... Neither would he go to the bubble tea stall to eat the noodles there.. It would never taste the same without T. T was all K wanted in his life... and he had lost T... If he could eat the noodles that T promised to cook for him now, he would rather not have any other things to eat for the rest of his life, except T's noodles.

T had many things to do too after exams. She wanted to watch movies with K...spend more time with K.... and look for K more often.... And do the things she had promised him to do when she has time.... After K got his computer.. he downloaded a lot of movies... All the movies T wanted to watch but had no time, K downloaded them.... K didn't watch it himself.. he was waiting for T to watch it with him, but T never had the time to do it.... K wanted so much for T to have time to watch it with him, and so he kept them in his computer and never deleted them... But the terrible incident happened... and T would not watch those movies with K again...

Even till now.. the movies are still inside K's computer... he will never ever delete them.. with the hope that T will watch them with him one day...

on xiaxue's entry on ny eve

yes... i read xiaxue's blog too... but her entry on the war zone at orchard rd makes me feel how 'safe' singapore is sometimes, there's no one to control the situation when there suppose to be neccessary. and its already not the 1st time... where are they?

hence, it prompts my comment on her blog:

everytime i am over orchard rd during xmas eve or ny eve, i always have 1 very big question - where is the police?
i am rather fortunate not in orchard rd this holiday, instead, i am over tsim sha tsui & mongkok(hong kong, which is). u expect more hovac and messy hk will be rite? nope... i actually feel more safe there. y? because there are so many policemen/women around, 2 pair of them every few meters, patrol van with police on top to monitor the situation every 200m. the main roads are closed to facilitate movement of human traffic... i can assure u there r 10 times (at least) more ppl over the area than our tiny orchard rd, but man, wtf, i feel bloody safe... maybe tats the difference in how different places dealing with this situation i suppose...